It seems like a good time to publish another chapter of the Rwandan Journal.
I'm also announcing that I'm going to Austria in late Dec. and will hopefully have many pictures and fun tales of snowboarding the Alps, missions to remote monasteries, and expeditions to Northern Italy. It should be riveting.
Rwanda Journal 8-13-05
This particular entry is only a list meant to help me remember. Obviously I never went back to capture everything, but I'll do my best to disclose what I do remember.
The list:
-Wedding
-I was called a mazungu (sp?)
-Little kid grazed me
-Jake's zit
-Great talk w/ Eric
-met people from Oklahoma City (Allen from Ethiopia)
-Saw Paul Kagame (president of Rwanda)
-Felt utterly disconnected from everything and like I had zero purpose (nothing new for any of us I'm sure)
Wow... this is bringing back some great memories.
That morning started with us going to the Kigali parish compound to get prepared for Dr. Zac and Erin Senga's wedding. (the ambassador of Rwanda to the US)
Sam and Kim went out before us and when we arrived we discovered that Kim had ventured off into the streets by herself. (not smart)
Sam and I were dispatched to search for her which led to some really wonderful encounters for me. As we rounded the corner past the parish, we found ourselves on a street lined with shacks and Rwandans of all ages. A young boy spotted us and quickly announced to the whole neighborhood "mazungu, mazungu" which means white person. It's not a derogatory term like you might think. It is simply the word for white person.
We continued along the streets and found no signs of Kimberly (later known as Kim from Berlin).
Eventually we decided to head back to the compound and as we did we passed close to a mother and her young boy. As we passed each other, the young boy reached out and touched my leg. He just wanted to touch me because I was white and he probably rarely saw any white people. This made me extremely happy because I had been waiting for that moment ever since I decided to go on the trip. Children are such a gift.
Mazungu Identifier
The wedding was similar to a traditional American wedding except for a few details. There was definitely more singing and more preaching. I think Dan had to speak three times (two of which I don't think he knew about it) They also receive an offering from all of those gathered. The bride and groom stand in front with baskets and everyone comes and gives them a monetary gift. (of course they ended up donating all of the money)
The reception on the other hand only resembles ours by the fact that there is food, music and dancing. This little event seemed to go on for hours and hours. One group would dance then three men would stand up and declare what gifts they were giving to the family (typically livestock) and then more dancers would perform and then someone would sing and then....
I thought it would never stop.
It was a great experience and we were fortunate to be a part of it, but when you are sitting in your seat for about four hours you tend to get a little restless. There were a few bright points that I must mention. One is that we sang for the crowd which included president Kagame and his wife.
Two, we had the opportunity to experience Rwandan traditions like the dancers as well as the Bride and Groom feeding those who gathered for the reception. They both went into the crowd and served us cake. I thought that it was an interesting and tender tradition that connected all to the newlyweds (although they were already technically married but that's another discussion).
I hope that this suffices.
The only other thing that might need explaining is Jake's zit.
I stayed with Eric for the entire trip and that night Jake came into our room to talk.
As the conversion developed, we found ourselves listening to Jake describe his discomfort afforded to him by a huge zit on his chin.
We laughed hysterically like little school girls.
Can you see it?